A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_URI::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/URI.php
Line Number: 101
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Router::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Router.php
Line Number: 127
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 78
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 390
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_DB_mysqli_driver::$failover is deprecated
Filename: database/DB_driver.php
Line Number: 371
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::open($save_path, $name) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::open(string $path, string $name): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 113
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::close() should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::close(): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 280
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::read($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::read(string $id): string|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 145
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::write($session_id, $session_data) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::write(string $id, string $data): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 223
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::destroy($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::destroy(string $id): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 303
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::gc($maxlifetime) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::gc(int $max_lifetime): int|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 344
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 281
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_cookie_params(): Session cookie parameters cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 288
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 303
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 313
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 314
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 315
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 316
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 94
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_save_handler(): Session save handler cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 107
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_start(): Session cannot be started after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 140
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1290
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 5
Function: __construct
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MResearches.php
Line Number: 32
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 8
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MResearches.php
Line Number: 0
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 8
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MResearches.php
Line Number: 83
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 8
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MResearches.php
Line Number: 0
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 8
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$MResearches is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 8
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$MResearchesCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 9
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Researches::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 10
Function: model
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MResearches is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MResearchesCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/application/controllers/Researches.php
Line: 78
Function: view
File: /home/monstertest/public_html/alzaatari/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once
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أفضل طريقة لتعامل الرجل مع المرأة
الحمد لله رب العالمين وأفضل الصلاة وأتم التسليم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين. مستمعي الكرام: السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته. إذا سألت ما أفضل طريقة لحسن تعامل الرجل مع زوجته؟ وكيف يسعد الزوج زوجته؟ إن في ذلك جواباً عاماً من حديث رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم، وجواباً تفصيلياً. أما الجواب العام: فقوله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: "خيركم خيركم لأهله، وأنا خيركم لأهلي". وأما الجواب التفصيلي: فهو في عدة قضايا نذكرها على سبيل واجبات الزوج نحو زوجته؛ لنعمل بها فنتحقق بالخيرية التي كان عليها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم تجاه زوجاته: 1- حسن الاستهلال عند الدخول إلى البيت مثل: البدء بالسلام، وطلاقة الوجه والابتسامة والمصافحة ولا بأس بالمعانقة. 2- عذوبة الخطاب، ولطافة النداء، من خلال الكلمة، والاهتمام بالزوجة، وإشعارها بذلك، ووضوح الكلام، والتأني فيه، وإذا ناديتها فنادها بأحب الأسماء إليها. 3- الإيناس والتسلية، فقد كان من هديه صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: إيناس أزواجه والسهر معهن، رغم كثرة مشاغله، وعظم أعبائه صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم، فإن لأهلك عليك حقاً فأعط كل ذي حق حقه. 4- الترويح والملاعبة، ففي حديثه صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: "كل شيء ليس من ذكر الله لهو ولعب؛ إلا في أربعة: ملاعبة الرجل امرأته، وتأديب الرجل فرسه، ومشى الرجل بين الغرضين (الهدفين في الرماية)، وتعليم الرجل السباحة". 5- التعاون المنزلي: مشاركة الزوج في أعمال المنزل مثل: إعداد الطعام، أو شرائه، أو ترتيب البيت في يوم من الأيام، ويقصد اليوم هنا ليس (24) ساعة، وإنما أن يكون لك زمن تقول: أنا اليوم سأساعد في شؤون المنزل، فإن ذلك مما يُدخل السرور على قلب الزوجة، ويقوي مشاعر المودة والمحبة فيما بينك وبينها. 6- من أعظم تلك الواجبات للإسعاد بين الزوجين: التشاور في شؤون الحياة، ولقد كان رسول صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم أكثر الناس مشورةً لأصحابه وأزواجه، وقصة رأي أم المؤمنين أم سَلَمَة في صلح الحديبية معروفة. 7- صلة الأقارب والتزاور واصطحاب الزوج زوجته عند زيارة الأقارب والأصدقاء وأهل الخير في طاعة الله سبحانه وتعالى. 8- وإذا أراد سفراً، فمن المودة وحسن المعاملة أن يعلم زوجته، ويودَّعها، ويوصها ببعض الوصايا، ومن السنة طلب الدعاء منها، ومن الواجب أن يزودها بالنفقة، ثم أثناء سفره، يتصل بها، ويطمئن على حالها، ويصطحب هدية لها عند العودة، ولا يفاجئها عند الوصول كي تتهيأ له، ولكي تطفي على البيت نوعاً من السكينة تستقبل الزوج بها. 9- الإنفاق، حيث إن الإنفاق على البيت والزوجة بسخاء لا بخل فيه، فإن ذلك مما يسهم في استقرار الأسرة. 10- التطيب والتزين، فالله جميل يحب الجمال، وكان ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما يقول: (إني لأحب أن أتزين لامرأتي، كما أحب أن تتزين لي). 11- من الواجبات التي قد بغفل عنها بعض الرجال: إشباع الغريزة في العلاقة الجسدية، فالبعض يصل إلى مراده ثم يترك زوجته والواجب أن يوصل ذاك الأمر إلى زوجته كما وصل هو أيضاً إلى ذلك. 12- تطييب الخاطر، فالزوج المؤمن ذو عاطفة جياشة تشعر بآلام الغير، فالزوجة قد تمر بأزمات أو مشكلات وتحتاج إلي بسمة حانية، ونبرةٍ صافية، تمسح عنها الآلام، وتجبر الخاطر المكسور. وإلى الزوجين نقول: 13- حافظوا على الأسرار الزوجية، ففي الحديث عن رسول صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال: "إن من أعظم الأمانة عند الله يوم القيامة الرجل يفضي إلى امرأته، وتفضي إليه ثم ينشر سرها". 14- التعاون على طاعة الله، والمشاركة في العبادة من قيام ليل، وذكر وتسبيح وصدقات مصداقاً لحديث الرسول صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: "رحم الله رجلاً قام من الليل، فصلى وأيقظ امرأته، فأن أبت نضح في وجهها الماء". 15- إكرام أهلها وصديقاتها. 16- الغيرة المحمودة. 17- الحلم والتأني والترفق بالزوجة، وعدم الغضب للنفس، والتماس المعاذير. 18- العفو والتسامح، فإن وجد الخطأ فهو العتاب الرقيق. ولتنفيذ ما سبق، ولحياة زوجية سعيدة، أدعوك أيها الأخ الكريم وأدعوكِ أيتها الأخت الكريمة: أن يحترم كل منكما الآخر على قاعدة مقومات الإنسانية، فزوجتك هي الصديق الأقرب وليست مجرد وسيله للمتعة. كما أنها ليست مجرد خادمه تطبخ وتكنس. فلا تكن أيها الزوج بخيلاً بكلمة تقدير أو تشجيع على ما تقوم به زوجتك من إنجازات وأعمال. وتجنب الانتقادات اللاذعة. فالرجولة ليست في القسوة والغلظة. بل عبارات الود والرحمة هي مفتاح القلب وبذرة السعادة. نسألك اللهم أن تحققنا بذلك، والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته.
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